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Wednesday, December 31, 2025

how to be a ghost

Welcome to how to be a ghost! This post is for all the ghouls and ghastly people aspiring to haunt. It contains multiple aesthetic sections to help you get your ideal ghostly vibe. 

And always remember that this taste is subjective! I am always throwing ideas at the wall and seeing if they stick. Take what resonates and leave what doesn't. 

Comment with your own ideas! Let's build a creepy community.

Aesthetic

  • candles lit everywhere
  • cold late night air
  • early morning fog
  • comfort in the misunderstood
  • accidentally startling people
  • broken mirrors
  • cats
  • being awake in the haunting hours of the night
  • sticking to routine
  • being alone in a crowded space
  • cold hands
  • lace curtains
  • a shoe box full of things from your past
  • photos of people you no longer know
  • creaky floors
  • vintage floral wallpaper
  • the moon
  • windy nights
  • vines of ivy across old buildings
  • polaroids of old friends

 Foods & Recipes

  • hot tea
  • apple cider
  • mashed potatoes
  • vanilla yogurt
  • three musketeers
  • marshmallows / marshmallow cream
  • icing
  • taffy
  • ice cream
  • light biscuits
  • classic halloween cookies!
  • any kind of halloween food kits! some stores sell these during halloween time, or even in the months leading up to it. they come in things like cupcakes, cookies, and even haunted gingerbread houses.
  • any kind of ghost themed snack! the ghost dots were a popular and hard to find choice for me, but full disclaimer: those things are radioactive! there's no way they can be healthy with all the dyes and artificial things in them.

Thrift List

  • old clocks
  • keys
  • old letters
  • tattered quilts
  • lace doilies
  • old books
  • old photos
  • obsolete technology
  • anything left over from halloween
  • old or broken dolls
  • lanterns
  • nightlights
  • discarded library books
  • records
  • a vintage lamp
  • a music box

Places to Haunt

  • abandoned houses
  • cemeteries
  • worn out motels
  • libraries
  • empty nighttime streets
  • hotel hallways
  • a walgreens or cvs at night
  • the creek
  • an abandoned school bus
  • dead malls
  • used bookstores
  • the forest
  • old bridges 

Activities & Hobbies

  • explore
  • journal--maybe even a ghost journal reserved exclusively for haunting entries!
  • scrap-booking or junk journaling--these could also be ghost themed, but the general aesthetic of vintage stationery gives me enough of the vibe.
  • letter writing
  • find cemeteries to haunt--findagrave.com is my favorite website to easily locate anyone’s grave and also browse all cemeteries in any area! I found so many cool abandoned cemeteries this way. 
  • meditate
  • people watch
  • haunt your house in the middle of the night
  • read
  • pull tarot cards
  • write poetry
  • unplug from tech!
  • have a bonfire
  • create a moon ritual
  • take blurry / grainy photos
  • film photography
  • don't be afraid to go places alone! (safely)
  • play old records
  • listen to the radio
  • memorize poetry
  • headstone rubbings
  • embroidery
  • listen to ghost stories
  • write in the steam on the bathroom mirror, or the dust on the back of a car

Wardrobe

  • whites and florals
  • flowy dresses and skirts
  • flowy pants
  • flowy nightgowns
  • lacy clothes
  • simple, loose t-shirts
  • vintage dressy white tops
  • fingerless gloves
  • low heels, especially in a vintage style
  • any kind of vintage dresses--house dresses, tea dresses, long, formal dresses
  • scarves
  • beanies
  • light / no jewelry
  • big sweaters 

Monday, December 15, 2025

review of "the ghost" (1963)

Lo Spettro movie poster featuring Barbara Steele

Contains Spoilers

The Ghost (1963) is not a movie to be watched in the background. This Italian film is full of twists and turns that require the viewer's full attention, and sometimes more. There are parts of this film I'm still not sure I understood, and in the end everything sort of starting jumbling together to create a messy glob of plot points. 

That being said, this movie falls into one of my favorite hyperspecific movie genres: mid-century B-Movie that is just really weird and fucked up.

I watched The Ghost free on Tubi. The title screen and credits were in English, and the actors appeared to also be speaking English, although it may have been Italian, such is the nature of the movie poster and the possibly-dubbed dialogue. The subtitles were in Spanish, and it all bounced back to Tubi-generated English subtitles that were only partially correct, and frequently messed with pronouns and grammar. 

We set the scene on Scotland, 1910, a location that is English-speaking. There is a heavy thunderstorm, and the picture is full of shadows that obscure faces, making characters and surroundings hard to recognize. The opening scene is possibly a seance, or what may be an exorcism of an older woman who is babbling incoherently and moving strangely. We never learn this woman's name. She is revealed as alive halfway through the movie, living in some other part of the house. That's the last time we see her.

John is an older man who is under the care of his in-home doctor Charles. They already have a strange relationship, as John is, or was, also a doctor. Charles seems to be performing some kind of medical experiment on him wherein he poisons him, waits for it to take effect, then quickly gives him the antidote. The nature of the poison is unknown, but Charles swears that this method is slowly enabling John to recover.

Enter Margaret, Charles' wife. She's dressed elaborately in period clothes, still sporting the iconic 1960s blue eyeshadow and perfect beehive. She denies it, but John is quick to figure out that she is having an affair with Charles, meeting him secretly in the greenhouse of this beautiful gothic mansion. It's implied that Margaret doesn't really love John. She didn't have a penny when she married, and of course came into all this wealth afterwards. 

Margaret and John

In the greenhouse, we learn that Charles and Margaret are plotting to kill John. Margaret wants Charles to hurry up the process, and when he is hesitant, she threatens to take matters into her own hands. This brings us into my favorite scene of the movie. 

A beautiful lullaby plays from John's music box as he's in his wheelchair by the window, alone with Margaret. She is getting the blade ready to shave his face with--the audience knows she will kill him, but John doesn't. He simply reminisces on the days when they were in love, Margaret holding a blade to his throat. This music echoes throughout the movie, and I genuinely cannot convey how much I feel in love with this waltz. It makes the movie, truly. 

The next day, the priest visits John. Evidently, John has been doing some seances that the priest doesn't approve of. I really appreciate the attention to detail here, although I do feel like they could have made a bigger mention of his hobby as a sort of foreshadowing of his intentions. John tells the priest that he knows the plot Margaret and Charles are taking out on him, but the priest does not believe him. Sure enough, Charles poisons him as is routine, and refuses him the antidote, killing him. 

Margaret and Charles have carried out their agenda, and finally are lovers. Then, the haunting begins. The dark lighting and well placed shadows return, and the service bell John used to call the maid rings, but no one is there--John is dead. This is upsetting to Margaret, much more so than it is to Charles. Outside, a dog barks relentlessly, and Margaret snaps, handing Charles a pistol and ordering him to make it stop. Charles hesitates, then shoots the dog. Although I never, ever watch a movie where a dog dies, I didn't turn the movie off. Luckily, although the dog does make some pitiful sounds, it is never in sight, alive or dead. This does its job in marking the descent into madness.  

Later, in the daylight, the priest visits the mansion for the reading of the will. Just before he died, John had called on him to make changes to the will. These changes dictate that Margaret and Charles must both continue to live in the house after his death. However, two thirds of the fortune expected to be left to Margaret was donated to the orphans, leaving her with one third of what she married into. And boy, does that upset her.

In order to secure and divide the fortune legally, Charles and Margaret must locate the key to John's safe. When they fail to find it in front of the crowd, they plan with each other to find it that night, secretly, and take off with the money. Only, they don't find it. Katherine, the quiet servant that only makes one or two appearances in the first parts of the movie, mentions to Margaret that the key may be in the pocked of John's suit jacket--the one they buried him in. 

Cue the music box playing on its own--Margaret smashes it in rage.

Here is where we really begin. Together, Margaret and Charles enter the crypt where John is buried. They pry open his casket, revealing a decaying corpse, and Charles reaches in and locates the key in his suit pocket. At this point I'm only wondering, why couldn't they have picked the lock, if they were going to make a run for it anyway? They return to the main house and try the key. The safe is empty.

John then appears to Margaret alone in her bedroom, peeking through her bed curtains. It's the same vision of his decaying corpse she saw in his coffin. What's interesting about this is that is isn't a jump scare. The whole thing happens slowly, and the corpse lingers for an uncomfortably long time. Naturally, Margaret shoots at it. 

The next time John's corpse appears it is only to Charles, who finds him hanging ceiling. The irrelevance of this graphic image is striking. He never hanged, nor did he drip blood from a mysterious source onto the floor as he hanged. The face he's making is cartoonish--it's the very thing you imagine a hanging looking like when you're five years old. 

After these encounters, the framing of the movie is suddenly much lighter. There are fewer shadows, it's more often daylight, and there's a beautiful view of the beach. This is reflective of Charles and Margaret's relationship at the time--although they are haunted, they are in it together and still in love. The priest bursts this bubble quickly. He becomes suspicious of Charles living there during Margaret's time of supposed grief when Margaret misses her own husband's funeral.

She resolves to visit his grave by herself in full mourning attire and lovely clashing red roses. Kneeling in front of his grave--where he is not buried, because he is in a crypt--she hears the slow melody of the music box. It begins to follow her, and only she can hear it. 

The dark lighting returns, as does the thunderstorm mirroring that of the first scene, signaling that the climax is approaching. Charles and Margaret are in the mansion when the classic haunting begins. Curtains whisp, the chandelier swings, and objects smash for no reason. Margaret is visibly much more affected than Charles. She quickly becomes suspicious that he stole the money and planned to run off alone, without her. 

She finds something of John's that shows her the money may really be located under his grave. Alone and suspicious, she goes back into the crypt. I love the repeat of this scene, in a completely different context. Still in the search for the money, but no longer trusting Charles and having to act on her own. She cuts her hand over something unidentifiable placed on his casket--it was too dark to tell what it was. And still, there was no money. 

Dejected, she goes back into the mansion and finds that Charles, embarrassed by the priest, is packing his bags to leave. Margaret tips over a bag--it is completely filled with bills. Charles swears he doesn't know where they came from, that he loves her, he did not steal the money, and she doesn't believe him. She stabs him several, several, several times and burns the body. Katherine, the servant, watches the entire thing.

Here's where it really gets going.

With the way things went, Margaret goes upstairs to her husband's bedroom and drinks the remainder of his poison, waiting for it to kick in and kill her. John then comes out of his secret room behind the bookshelf, alive, and tells her that in fact, she didn't drink poison. He switched the bottles around, and she actually drank a liquid that will paralyze her from the waist down. And by the way, he faked his death. 

John goes into a villainous monologue about what he plotted for Margaret. It was the maid, Katherine, who ran off with the money after all, not Charles. She killed him for no reason. When the maid enters the room and finds them, John thanks her for everything she did to try and prevent his murder, then promptly shoots her dead. He explains too Margaret that he had already called the police, and planned to frame Margaret for Katherine's murder. 

Victorious, smug, he takes a swig out of a bottle of gin. Margaret begins laughing hysterically--John had previously switched out all the liquids, and the "gin" he thought he drank was actually poison. He begged Margaret for the antidote, and she almost gives it to him, but drops it, spilling into the carpet. 

The police arrive, and in his final moments John slips back into his secret room to die, possibly for real. They find Margaret sitting in John's wheelchair over the maid's body and carry her out the door. Margaret laughs the whole way down. 

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

case file: the montrose ghost

Welcome to the first of an ongoing series! This one has no end in sight. Each post in this series will be going over a specific haunting. Instead of linking each post, I’ll just specify that all posts can be found under the tag “Case Files.” The images used in this post (except for the header) do not belong to me, but the sources I pulled them from are linked at the bottom.

On May 27, 1913, 29-year-old Lieutenant Desmond Arthur went up in a B.E.2 biplane at the RAF Montrose (now the Montrose Air Station Museum) in Angus, Scotland. At around 2,500 ft, one of the plane’s wings folded up. It isn’t clear whether Lt. Arthur was thrown or jumped from the plane. Either way, he fell from 2,000 ft and died instantly, shattering every bone in his body and leaving an impression in the ground.

Lt. Arthur’s funeral attracted a lot of attention. This was the first air base in Great Britain, and the first airplane accident on the newly built base. After he was laid to rest, operations continued as normal until Autumn of 1916. After initially determining the cause of the crash was an accident, rumors began that it could have been prevented if not for Lt. Arthur’s own reckless flying.

Around this time, nearly everyone located on the base, Desmond Arthur’s former home, had begun to see a full bodied apparition roaming around in full military flying gear. Each time, the apparition would disappear into thin air. Additionally, there was a general uneasy feeling among the soldiers. One even reported waking up startled in the middle of the night to find Lt. Arthur sitting at the edge of his bed, disappearing shortly after.

After more investigation, the military determined that the wing of the plane had been broken previously, and an unknown person had shoddily attempted to repair it. Neither the break nor the flawed repair were reported or documented, and Lt. Arthur could not have prevented the accident.

The official conclusion was published, and this led to the final sighting of Desmond Arthur in 1917, allegedly in the mess throwing papers on the fire. I’m not sure if the papers were related, but I’m choosing for my own fun to believe that the papers he burned were the records of his flying leading up to the accident to be reckless.

There is one more detail to Lt. Arthur’s story. On his shattered body, they uncovered a locket, cracked down the middle but mostly intact, with a young woman’s picture on it--presumed a girlfriend of Arthur’s. The girl was fourteen years old.

The good news is--her family confirmed that even though they had been out on a few dates, they were chaperoned at all times. Not great news, but it makes it a little easier to swallow.

Lt. Arthur named the girl in his will, leaving her the majority of his savings--around one million dollars. She grew up well taken care of and eventually married another RAF pilot, hopefully one her own age.

The story of Desmond Arthur is far from the last thing that occurred at the RAF Montrose. To this day, people claim to hear footsteps, door handles turning, and see unexplained specters of pilots and even planes. These sightings began with the onset of World War II and have continued ever since.

Although people are quick to label any apparition seen as Desmond Arthur, there is no definitive evidence there have been any real sightings of him since 1917.

Additionally, in 2008, a team of paranormal investigators checked out the museum. Although they came to no profound discoveries, they did determine that the reported sounds of old planes flying overhead are actually created by the sound of traffic passing over the nearby bridge.

The more recent haunting at the museum involving their World War II era home display interested me the most. In this small recreation of a 1940s home sits a radio that several witnesses claim will pick up broadcasts featuring Winston Churchill and often the Glen Miller Orchestra--broadcasts clear enough to be identified. They typically begin at random and last up to thirty minutes at a time.

It is important to note that this radio is not connected to electricity in any way. The haunting drew so much concern to the museum that technicians and radio experts were hired to investigate the radio. Technicians opened the back of it up and reported nothing but cobwebs and dust.

Other radio experts, on examination, could also find no explanation for the vintage broadcasts. They told the museum that it could be possible, if there was a powerful transmitter near the area. But, there wasn’t. They found no identifiable source. In fact, the radio was aging so quickly that plugging it in and turning it on would cause sparks to fly. It simply was not possible for the radio to pick up current broadcasts, let alone broadcasts from World War II.

Such is the story of Desmond Arthur and the Montrose Air Station Museum. It’s a location to put on a list, and since it seems there have been no investigations conducted publicly in the last seventeen or so years, it may still be a great area of research.

Sources/Further Reading:

Radio Ghost Mystery at Former RAF Station

Montrose Air Station Heritage Center

Sad Fate of Lieutenant Desmond Arthur

Ghostly Wartime Aviator Still Haunting Montrose